First Visit to Gyane - Part 2

After couples of minutes, we are called to meet the doctor for the first time. From her name, Dr. Zovi, I am assuming she must be an indian lady (dark skin). But when I first saw her, I am in a shock. She looks like Chinese.

What do you mean by look like Chinese? Ya, she looks like but she is not. She is Indian... okok.. a bit off topics.. :P

OK, finally start on the checkout, started with some questions which had been ask mostly by the nurse prior to the checkout. I wonder why she need to ask again.

Then she calculates the expected delivery date, which is on 18th of July 2008. How to calculate? Easy. Here is the formula.

Expected delivery date = (Day of last period + 7),(Month of last period +
9),year

Examnple, my wife last period is at 11th October 2007, so

Expected delivery date = Day(11+ 7), Month(10 + 9),year = 18th July 2008


After those paper work, start with the actual checkout. She asked my wife to go behind the curtain for checkout. I am leaving behind sitting by the table. Waiting........ What happen behind the curtain, I don't know. I guess would be taken off pants and lie down for the checkout.

After couples of minutes, I started to get frustratedfrustrated as I thought I can get to see what had been done and to see how my baby look like for the first time. But I had left behind for sometime. I thought I won't be able to go in.

But finally, I heard my wife call my name.. HOREY!!... horey I am getting so excited as I can go in now!!!!!

Same as what I expected, my wife lying down on the bed, with both legs hanging on the supporter (on the orange color part in the pics below).



And the doctor ask me to look at the screen, and said "This is your baby. You saw this... that...... " while poiting on the screen. She is moving "something" under the cover to get a better view on the baby. I can't see anything as my wife's bottom is covered by bed sheet.

After that, I ask if i can take the photo of my baby. To my surprise, she said just go ahead. So here is the first picture of my baby.



Previously I had seen some photo about the baby development from conceive until deliver. So I try to do a comparison as the below photo. One is the illustration and another one is the actual shot from the ultra sound image.



More on the missing part on what had been done behind the curtain and what is the "something" the doctor is using to view the baby. Stay tune.

-More on part 3 -

First Visit to Gyane - Part 1

On 9th December 2008, we paid a visit to the Adventist Hospital to look for our choice of gyane, Dr. Zovi. Being the first time doing this, I am a bit nervous and excited. I can't wait to see how my baby look like.

We went there on early Sunday morning around 8.30am.
Yes!! Sunday morning, that's the reason why we turn to this hospital which operate on Sunday. I don't have to take leave for all the checkout. I mean both of us.

After doing all the registration, we have to wait for our turn. As we are walk in for the first checkout without appointment, so I expected to wait longer. But their practice is one appointment checkout after a walk in patient. It is kind of fair to me.

We waited patiently in front the patient numbering system and a nurse came out and called my wife's name. I am wonder, it is 2 more patients before my wife. Later I realize they need to do some pre-checkout before the doctor.

The pre-checkout includes measuring height, weight, and blood pressure and ask some question about her.
Here are the questions.
  1. When was your last period?
  2. Is your period regular?
  3. How many days since your expected period date?
  4. Did you do any checkout prior to confirm the pregnancy?
  5. Is there any bleeding happen during your sexual intercourse?
  6. Is this your first baby?
  7. Have you experience any mis-carry before?

Those are the common question to get to know the pregnant ladies. I am wondering how the bleeding while making love related to the pregnancy. I don't understand. Dr Zovi

After the checkout, another round of waiting before being ask to wait outside the gyane room, Dr. Zovi.

-More on part 2 -

Choosing Gyane

After the previous checkout at the Pan-Medic clinic and confirm on the pregnancy, we did ask the doctor if he has any recommended Gyane in town. But he don't have any idea and I doubt about it.

Now I have another problem, which gyane to look for?
There are so many in town and I don't know which one to choose. I had heard some bad comments on certain hospital and even some gyane, but I never take attention to keep them in my mind.

Now it is time to recall back all those comments and past experience from others. These are few choices but bad comments turn them down.

1. SRI-GIM => Banned due to previous incident happen on my sister (given wrong medicine)
2. Pantai Hospital => poor service and in-experince doctor.

Here are some with good comments
1. Adventist ==> Good: Lady Doctor; Bad: Vegetarian, far away from my house
2. Island ==> Good: Good doctor; Bad: Expensive

As this is the first time my wife is pregnant, and she would prefer a lady doctor to checkout on her private part instead of a guy doctor. I respect her choice even I disagree as the location is far from my place.

But, I am not the one that need to take off my pants to let the doctor to do the checkout and touching the private part, so I respect my wife decision. Dr. Zovi is our choice.

Next post: First Visit to Dr. Zovi

Jackpot Part3: Test Results

dear o dear...

I am not going to write much about this blog, but just to show the test results... about how the kits work? next post ok?

So here is the first test kits i bought from the farmasi with the lao yee......

My wife is about 10 days off the "Auntie visit".... so we plan to have the first test..

I did the search online... they say 10 days can only check wor.... so we mor test lor...

I bought it after work and test it right away after get home.....

How... sure go "xu xu la" (go and pee)...

Here is the first results.. and we dun understand if it indicated....

Jackpot Number 3?... dun know.... as the 2nd line is too blur.... or too light



So... yet to confirm..... not sure.. and getting more excited and nervous at the same time....


I did a research after that... and found out the hormone will be more severe during morning pee.... so.... wat to do a?... buy another one la....

ok... this round is around 12days off the "visit"... this round... a bit smart liao lo.....

why... wait until morning time baru test la... dun get stupid liao ma.. later the result is not convincing again.. macam mana ler?

ok.. here is the result.....



more severe right... i mean the 2nd line.... but still.... can't believe it..... Jack pot number 4.....

aiyo.... So plan to go and see doctor liao lo.... to triple confirm..

but ... the doctor ask us wait until one more week, as she say.. if miss 2 weeks... sure getting more accurate results...

APA LA?... so frustrated at that time.... so difficult meh? test only wat...?

What to do.... go home la....... wait until next week lo....

Before go to doctor... I buy one more... haha... y ?... can't wait to know the answer.......

this round..... we buy a new brand from Watson, QB... this time... at the 14th day...

see this..... so obvious.... and nothing to say liao lo......



WE KENA JACKPOT.......

BUT still we can't believe it was real...... why i say so... will tell u then...

We still go for the doctor.... and doctor test it and tell my wife....

Congratulation..... you got pregnant.....

That's jackpot number 5...... see?.... how excited it is.......

so sure kena liao ma... why only my jackpot only 5 number......

where is the 6th number... without it... u can't win? Right?...

Next post will be the 6th number... as we still get to confirm... until....

later post la... :P

Jackpot Part 2: Pregnancy Test Kits

It is time for part 2... so kan cheong (nervous in cantonese).. y so nervous?

Sure la... now we had the first 2 number matching the jackpot number, so we have remaining 4 number to verify if we won......

1st number is "Auntie no visit this month"

2nd number is "No family planning last month" :p

So now is the 3rd number..... so... how to verify if we kena the 3rd number....

Pregnancy Test kits.... hamilai? (what is that in hokkien)... to test if kena jackpot lor........

I had heard a lot about this from TV series.... something like a paper and change color.. like the paper we use to test the water's PH level.....

Of cause how it physically look like? Honestly say.. I DUN know.... as the TV series only having the girls scream in the toilet......... either happy or sad.....

how the kits look like? Never show in the TV at all..... at least as what i know of....

What to do a...... Need to go and buy la.... Buy pregnancy kits la...

Go where to buy ler? FARMASI la......

Sure bor? Wan meh? SO embarrassing la..... Paiseh lo?

Tell you something... I am that kind of ppl dun know what is paiseh one..... Dun care how the ppl think about me....

I had gone to farmasi for several time to buy stuff which a lot of guys felt it as "sensitive" item such as condom and lubricant gel.... Nothing to feel ashamed of....

Now.. it is for the pregnancy test kids... this round really headache... why... dun know how it looks, where they put? I can't find any.....

ok... I went to the counter and ask the "lao yee" (auntie in hokkien).. I want pregnancy test kits...... She look at me twice.... blink several time.... and open the drawer inside the counter and taken out a bag with something hard inside..... and I pay for the kits RM9.00..

She handled the kits to me and look at me differently... Or I am thinking too much... she seems like wanted to say something like "Good Luck" before I go out.......

I think I think too much....

This is how a pregnancy test kits look like assuming you never seen this before......




........ to be continued Part 3

Hey... We won Jackpot hio??

Emm.... ya right, are we hitting the jackpot and win a million from the game?????

My wife's "auntie visit" is regular, so it always predictable. During last month, the auntie didn't pay us a visit. We are not aware of it, as we are too busy with all the working stuff, friend's wedding, this la ... that la...

Until, 4 days after the expected auntie visiting date..... we start to wonder... I forgot what had trigger us in the first place.....(may be I wanted to have "fried rice" ma, only that moment we will discuss about those stuff... hihi).....

Emm... as the date never delay more than 3 days, of course this is base of past historical data... (sounds like working wording.. :P)...

So now what? both of us become speechless..... dun tell me we win the "jackpot"??!!!

"What Jackpot?" ==> You la... our baby... you are our jackpot...

During that moment, the feeling is very complicated.... how complicated?
Happy and Worry at the same time.... mixing around...

During that time, we only suspect that we had won.. still yet to verify. So, we dun know whether we are ready for the jackpot.... so we are worry.... of course there are a lot of area that we need to worry about.

Financial.... Mentally... Physically... ya.. we need to get all this ready. I am worry about if I can support all the expenses on my baby, I am worried if I mentally ready to be a father, I am worried if I had physical strength to take care my wife and my baby...............

Too much thing to worry... But we are so happy to have our little "jackpot" to be with us to our family..... I can't wait to meet you baby.....

We can't get happy toooo early... why???.... it is yet to confirm at that time..... so what to do?

............ to be continued

New Baby Formation Part I

You are not transfomer....so... dun expect any transfomer pictures or any video clip here.....

But we, including you are one type transfomer... but we can't transform ourselve to anything else. The reasons is we are the end result of tranformation...

In order to bring you and me and everyone else to this world, we need 'something' from mama and 'something' from papa to combine to become you....

Sound too gross??? wat is the 'something' ler?... Emm... Shud I use more scientific terms? ok... is sperm from papa and egg from mama... wat is sperm and wat is egg?

emm..... Let the picture show you what I meant...

This is egg



These are sperms



There are only one egg from ur mama, but there are millions of sperm from papa. Only the champion can win the race to win the heart of the egg. You are the champion....



You swim the fastest and strongest. You had successfully gone through all the obstacle and barriers to meet with the egg.

You may not be the first one to arrive, but you are the only one that able to combine with the egg.....like the photo below....



Once you enter the egg... everything is done on the first level of transformation which we called as fertilization.




End part I

Next Coming Topics: life formation

Since we had covered when you are form, now it is the time for us to share with you how you are form......

Emm... I dun think I am going to disclose any private part of the process... So... let the picture tell the story....

I got this picture from your 'UNCLE LIM' blog.. the picture tell more then 100 words.... I will explain to you one day about the beautiful part of life formation.......

I will post it on the next coming post... so hope you all don't mind.. hihi....

Itchy Itchy la.....

haiyo yo...... dear a... my dear...... why you are so choosy about the food ler? hihi.... I am not scolding you la.... but dun know what had your mummy taken la... now the whole body itchy.... hami si itchy = "GATAL" la....

there is small red spots around the stomach area..... so I need to put some powder on her body to stop her from scratching.....

What she had eaten today is..... WAH.. A Lot la.... But i need to figure what which one of them that is causing the allergy on your mummy's body... I need to list all out....

Morning:
1. Wan Tan Mee
2. Karipap
3. Fresh milk - cook with egg

Lunch
1. Rice
2. Tu's eo ci (piggy's kidney)
3. vege
4. Ou Bak (Dark sauce meat)

Dinner
1. Rice
2. Tu's eo ci (piggy's kidney)
3. vege
4. Ou Bak (Dark sauce meat)

Out from what she had eaten..... they are only 2 new things that she consume today....

1. Fresh Milk with egg
2. Tu's eo ci (piggy's kidney)


How would you all think ler? Stop having both of them? Emm... but one of them is very good to our dear baby la... the fresh milk.....

Next week, let's try once again... if the allergy came back.... then... we will stop having it....

So... wait still next week la.... now everyday i need to monitor your mama's diet... need to ensure she is having the right food.....

When are you form?

Dear oooo dear.... if you are about to ask when are you form? what shud i tell u then.. baby?... papa dun know how to tell la....

let me guess...... shud be 2 months ago lor... hihi.... to be frank... I am so certain about the date. Y? You might wonder why I am so certain about the date. as a lot of you out there may not know about this at all... right?

Yes.. I am 99% certain.. Before I start with the censored part,, dear... let me explain some of the terms here... ok?

Most of us only know when is our birthday, it is the date when we are borned. But ..... we never know when we are form.... You know why? As even our papa and mama also dun know when we are form la.... hahaha..... so they can only know when we were borned.

See.. how lucky you are to know when you are form...... But tell you honestly, i can't tell you exactly the time.... :D

OK... You are form on 25th October 2007. This is your official form date.... Don't feel ashame of this.... You should be proud as you know something that most of your friends won't knew about...... ok? I will delete all this if you and mumy are not happy with all this....
I love you baby.......

And should we celebrate this day? If we do, then we will be the only one in this world who celebrate "Form Day".... Happy Form Day to you.... AM I GET crazy... I am not... Guess you won't think that either.......